This is a quick F1 style pit stop to say I’m still on the PhD journey. I’m reading, writing, networking and learning something new at every step of the way.
I am learning that I have strengths that I never even knew I had in such abundance. Resilience, dedication, tenacity and passion to name a few.
Today was one of my treasured ‘research days’. They are days that I have negotiated with my manager to focus on my research. It will never be enough, however, it is a start and is very much appreciated. Highlight of my day: My conference poster was accepted today!
I’ve received the link to the ethical approval application forms as well today! Oh dear!๐ณ This may take some time to decipher. Luckily, help is at hand. I have an ever growing network of peers on social networking media without who, I would have really struggled to remain motivated on this research journey.
As I tweeted earlier, doing a PhD can feel like hard labour, physically, mentally and every ally you can think of. I was reminded that it will be worth it. It most certainly will.
I pledge to write a book after this. Others will learn from my journey …๐๐ฝ
PhD students who are also employed deserve more than a medal. We need to have tea at Buckingham Palace! C’mon, give us as much incentive as possible.
Tips for PhD survival:
- You need to have emotional intelligence to survive a PhD. Know your trigger points. Know when to take breaks.
- You need to have some level of self deprecation balanced against self-belief and self-confidence. Don’t take yourself too seriously.
- Oh yes, humour is vital. You must be able to laugh out loud or you’ll cry silently.
- Talk, tweet, network with others who are either on the journey or have completed it. Never suffer in silence. Share the pain (sorry learning๐ )
As my friend and colleague said to me in the corridor earlier this week. Life gets in the way of doing your PhD. We laughed for a minute and carried on with our duties. It is so true though. You still have to live when doing a PhD. You can’t let life pass you by. Balance is key.
The journey is so much more important than the destination. My book has a working title of ‘The idiots guide to getting a PhD – if I can, why can’t you?’.
I accept that it can feel like we are walking in the valley of the shadow…however, we must never give up.๐ It’s worth it.
Be bold, be italic but never be regular! ๐
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